With all this snow as of late it has given me some time to think about people and their ways of so how and in some way getting into your " Business" and their maturity level. Now I am not going to toot my own horn and sit here and say that I am not guilty of the immaturity level. Because in reality we all are guilty of it.
Now for example numero uno. For the past 4 years of living in NYC I have had the same lady doing my taxes and usely I give them to her and in 2 weeks she has them done and 2 weeks from there I get my money back. Well I sent her everything and it was received by her on January 24th. I kept in touch with her and she stated that she would have an answer for me in about a week. So I contacted her back in a week on the status and she stated I should have an answer for me by the evening time.. Well that evening came and went and so I texted messaged her in the morning and received no response back from her. and I continued to do so up until February 24th when I finally emailed her and was like Please Send me my information back to me ASAP. She responded back that she would place them in the mail the following evening... Well here it is March 3rd and I still don't have them..... Let me try to make you understand. This lady in the past has ALWAYS been amazing on my tax's making sure I get all the money I am due back, Due back... I claim everything, Gas, Doctor Bills, Medication, Cell Phone Bill, Clothing, and Car Repairs.... in which by law is 100% Okay... Now I have people questioning why I didn't go to this person that all of a sudden I have something against that person.. REALLY PEOPLE, REALLY! Get your head out of your ass.... I have nothing against that other person. I went with the person that I have trusted with my taxes the last 4 years to continue to do so.. So get off your high horse and SHUT UP!.... To top that off they run off to others and try to throw me under the bus..One thing I can't stand is just that.. As a Married couple we have to learn how to make mistakes and learn from them.. I've learned from this time that I will NOT be using this said individual and I will be making an appointment with another person and sitting down with them going over everything with them and not leaving until they are done.. and, No I wont be using the person you want me to and NO it has nothing to do with who they are.. So, Stop with the guilt trip.
Number Two - I mean we have all done it... Talked Crap on someone to make ourselves or a friend feel better about themselves.. But I've always in my heart tried to not do that because I didn't and still don't like to be judged by people. Even though life doesn't always mean people don't judge you because they do for everything. But I'm honestly just sick of it. If you don't know someone and all you know is pictures Seriously Shut your mouth you have no clout on a person. If you don't know them then don't judge because honestly that person is actually pretty nice and a positive person. A person with dreams and aspirations and a pretty cool person. And on another note in this same category. Don't say someone isn't something when you yourself doesn't do what they do... Just because someone told you something because they think they are gods gift to said asset doesn't mean they know what the hell they are talking about, Make your own call is all I am saying. Stop Knocking people down to make yourself feel better because out of all honesty it makes you look like a bad person.
Number three - STOP WITH THE GOD DAMN NEGATIVITY!!!!! I'm seriously Over it. Life really isn't that bad... Make something of your life instead of worrying about Every little detail around you. You only live once and there is so much in life to live for.
Last but not least... I hate to say it, " I TOLD YOU SO " I'm uselly a good judge of character of people and when I say someones got an alternative motive.. Do me a favor, and just listen to me. And don't tell me you are not gunna catch feelings cus you know you are.... I wasn't born yesterday....
I'm truly sorry for venting on this thing but I need to let it out and I know noone reads this thing so it's my little personal pillow to cry in per say! -haha- But if you read it Cheers... But understand this doesn't particularly point a finger at anyone. just things that have been bothering me with a number of people...... people at work to people involved in my life.. I just need a mental break from people I think. -ha-
